If he has told you about this

A short, honest page for the person who knows him best.

Most of this happens midweek and close to home. Two nights away in the whole year, in September. That is the only time he will not be there in the evening.

Forty men who built businesses and arrived at around fifty realising the success bought them less than they expected. We spend a year going through it properly.

A quarter of that year goes into relationships. Himself, the family he came from, his children, his marriage. For most of them it is the first honest look.

We are not going to tell you what that will do for the two of you. We do not know.

What men say afterwards is almost always the same thing: that they had stopped being present years ago and had not noticed.

Three of them, you are invited to

Two retreats at Monksmead, and the lunch that closes the year.

You are welcome at all three. Come to none of them if you would rather.